21
Sep
I want connection: Curiosity-driven skillful relating which communicates curiosity and results in a particular feeling
5 min read
16
Sep
Discovering one can be happy with all outcomes enables free (non)action
1 min read
09
Sep
Book review: Searchless Responsiveness
2 min read
06
Sep
For many decisions, any amount of thinking is overthinking
1 min read
30
Aug
Why we can't just build a better dating "market"
1 min read
25
Aug
The unreasonable usefulness of rereading things I have already written
1 min read
16
Aug
Upgrading to Ghost v6 on Ubuntu
2 min read
09
Aug
The problem with fantasies
1 min read
05
Jul
Romance as a gathering purpose undermines itself because people fake a "more likeable" persona instead of being vulnerable
2 min read
01
Jul
Be careful who you listen to, because you might end up feeling like them
1 min read
26
May
Integration plans; or, more notes on Models (2/N)
6 min read
27
Apr
I can't fix wretchedness, I can only be with it, and that sucks
4 min read
26
Apr
Bad moods are unnecessary, I shouldn't have them, and wish I didn't --- and that wish might be why I keep having them
2 min read
26
Apr
My life story hinges on reading one fanfiction when I was fourteen, and this feels strange, but I guess it's okay
2 min read
24
Apr
Coming up with research questions is a lot easier if I have a concrete artifact to get curious about
1 min read
04
Apr
I don't know what desperate means but it sounds bad and I'd rather not be it --- so maybe I need to relax
2 min read
03
Apr
I use Twitter* mostly in pursuit of love
7 min read
03
Mar
Book review: The Alabaster Girl
7 min read
23
Feb
Fear and loathing of living friendlier
2 min read
23
Feb
Book review: Reflections on Silver River
1 min read
13
Feb
Crazy things I do to myself, 1/∞
3 min read
13
Feb
Book review: Tiny Habits
4 min read
12
Feb
Overthinking overthinking my love life
16 min read
11
Feb
The kind of guy I want to be
13 min read
09
Feb
Debugging my love life, 1/∞
6 min read